We got back from our vacation a few days ago and since we were sleeping at my relatives and didn’t have a lot of carnal relations (plus we finally got married and that had to be consummated), we, er…
Well you get the idea.
Afterwards, likely due to my job as a seeker of adult content and my own shaky confidence, I had to wonder if I had done a decent job of pleasuring my new husband. He of course was thrilled and went straight to sleep, but I was left wondering. Further analysis revealed that part of my insecurities may lie in my job. After all, I see/read/research means of having better sex and this includes porn.
But porn sex is not real sex. It’s not even remotely real sex. I’m sure you all know that intellectually, but it can still smack you in the face when you least expect it (especially if your partner watches porn) and you’re left wondering: are you good enough?
But no one is good enough to be porn sex! Here’s why:
Porn sex is choreographed and the act is done over and over again at different angles. Then the product is airbrushed, photoshopped, and otherwise fixed. (and did you know there are porn stunt doubles for the close shots?)
Porn sex is a good deal…. neater, mostly due to the fact that the finished product has been edited. You won’t have any damp spots, queefing, or anything other than elegantly sweaty limbs. Plus everyone is shaven. Now how many men do you know will shave their bodies? (how many of us want them to?)
Porn sex has a script to follow, usually a bad one, but a script nonetheless. It’s rehearsed and memorized and ad-libbed just like any other script. It also has a director and cameras.
Porn sex is done by professionals who only like each other as coworkers.
Now,while the finished product may be something that is sexy and fulfilling for some people, it’s not real. The whole thing is made up. And so, if you’re in a relationship, the real sex will be far more fulfilling than any stageplay anyway.
A final thought: Do you really want to work as hard on that sex scene in your own bedroom as those porn stars do? Someone shouting ‘CUT!’ and telling cameras to move to the left?
Yeah, I didn’t think so.
Happy sex everyone and talk to you all soon.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Vacation
Look! I'm graciously giving people a chance to catch up! *Crickets chirp* Ah well.
I'm off on vacation tomorrow which will restore body, mind, soul, and sexual feelings to boot. Premature ejaculation cures are great, but so is a vacation for my partner and I! I guess the best cure of all would be time to unwind, a good herbal remedy and some exercising.
Well, that's all folks. See you in a couple of weeks.
I'm off on vacation tomorrow which will restore body, mind, soul, and sexual feelings to boot. Premature ejaculation cures are great, but so is a vacation for my partner and I! I guess the best cure of all would be time to unwind, a good herbal remedy and some exercising.
Well, that's all folks. See you in a couple of weeks.
Monday, May 10, 2010
The Worst Methods to Have Safe Sex!
Ok, we’ve looked at some of the best ways to have safe sex, so now it’s time to look at the worst ways to do it! Some of these are tried and true (resulting in my gorgeous son by the way!) so if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, STDs, or any anxiety tied to these things, AVOID THESE SO CALLED ‘SAFE SEX’ METHODS!
The Old Pull Out Method
With a reputation among teens as old as time, the old pull out method is a stand by used by young men to avoid wearing a condom. The idea behind it is simple: pull out of the vagina before you ejaculate and that way, you avoid shooting your sperm into your girlfriend. This method may have history, but it doesn’t work. This is because even a man’s lubrication has sperm in it and it only takes one of these little buggers to make a baby. Plus there’s no guarantee that he’ll be able to pull out before ejaculating anyway.
Sex Standing Up
Fun? Yes. Safe? Nothttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif so much. The idea behind this one is that if you have sex while standing up, the sperm won’t be able to go anywhere because they’ll be fighting against gravity and will fail. Although sperm will have a slightly harder time of it going uphill, so to speak, the woman’s vagina muscles are built to help sperm go to where they need to go through muscle contractions and through a woman’s own lubrication cushioning the run. Sex standing up may look great in a porn, but it’s useless as a contraceptive.
Sex in the Water
A common one and great if you’re low on lubrication. The idea behind this one-both in a pool, bath, or shower-is that the sperm will be washing away before they can get into the woman’s body. Of course, this is completely wrong since the man’s penis will be inside of the woman where there isn’t any water! But this one persists anyway.
Counting the Days
The calendar method of figuring out when a woman is fertile or not is based around the fact that women are really only fertile for about one hundred hours a month, around 11-16 days before her period. However, it’s that ‘around’ that trips people up. Trying to figure out when it’s safe to have sex around a calendar is like playing Russian Roulette; you’ll probably be right, but then again, you might not be. The only way to do this method properly is through the Billing’s Method of Natural family planning; and even it’s by no means a sure thing.
Masturbate then Recreate!
Masturbating before sex has a few benefits-it makes men go longer and gets them warmed up. However, where it flops is as a contraceptive. The idea behind this one is that when you shoot off the first time, you’ll get rid of all your sperm (or most of it anyway) and thus greatly reduce the odds of impregnating your partner. It fails because, just like with the Pull it out method, it only takes one lucky sperm to make a baby.
If your partner tries to pull any of these on you, shut him (or her!) down quick. These are the worst ways to have safe sex, not the best ways!
Have a nice day folks!
The Old Pull Out Method
With a reputation among teens as old as time, the old pull out method is a stand by used by young men to avoid wearing a condom. The idea behind it is simple: pull out of the vagina before you ejaculate and that way, you avoid shooting your sperm into your girlfriend. This method may have history, but it doesn’t work. This is because even a man’s lubrication has sperm in it and it only takes one of these little buggers to make a baby. Plus there’s no guarantee that he’ll be able to pull out before ejaculating anyway.
Sex Standing Up
Fun? Yes. Safe? Nothttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif so much. The idea behind this one is that if you have sex while standing up, the sperm won’t be able to go anywhere because they’ll be fighting against gravity and will fail. Although sperm will have a slightly harder time of it going uphill, so to speak, the woman’s vagina muscles are built to help sperm go to where they need to go through muscle contractions and through a woman’s own lubrication cushioning the run. Sex standing up may look great in a porn, but it’s useless as a contraceptive.
Sex in the Water
A common one and great if you’re low on lubrication. The idea behind this one-both in a pool, bath, or shower-is that the sperm will be washing away before they can get into the woman’s body. Of course, this is completely wrong since the man’s penis will be inside of the woman where there isn’t any water! But this one persists anyway.
Counting the Days
The calendar method of figuring out when a woman is fertile or not is based around the fact that women are really only fertile for about one hundred hours a month, around 11-16 days before her period. However, it’s that ‘around’ that trips people up. Trying to figure out when it’s safe to have sex around a calendar is like playing Russian Roulette; you’ll probably be right, but then again, you might not be. The only way to do this method properly is through the Billing’s Method of Natural family planning; and even it’s by no means a sure thing.
Masturbate then Recreate!
Masturbating before sex has a few benefits-it makes men go longer and gets them warmed up. However, where it flops is as a contraceptive. The idea behind this one is that when you shoot off the first time, you’ll get rid of all your sperm (or most of it anyway) and thus greatly reduce the odds of impregnating your partner. It fails because, just like with the Pull it out method, it only takes one lucky sperm to make a baby.
If your partner tries to pull any of these on you, shut him (or her!) down quick. These are the worst ways to have safe sex, not the best ways!
Have a nice day folks!
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Natural Family Planning
Many religions, especially Christianity, have problems with using contraception devices as a way to prevent pregnancy. This is because most religions believe that humanity should only have sex to procreate, not for recreation, so contraception devices should not be necessary. In reality of course, many couples were having sex for the fun of it and when the birth control pill was introduced in the 1960s, recreational sex even in the most religious was growing more common place. In order to deal with the fact that women were able to have sex without worrying about pregnancy, the Roman Catholic Church cracked down on the use of birth control and offered up the alternative of natural family planning as an alternative. Natural family planning is meant to be a way for women to avoid getting pregnant without taking any medication or using any devices.
Natural Family Planning is based around the fact that the menstrual cycle of women has periods of infertility in it when it’s much harder or nearly impossible for women to get pregnant. It is at these times where it safe for women to have unprotected sex, or so the theory goes, and thus there is no need for things like birth control pills or even condoms. There are three kinds of natural family planning methods: the Rhythm method which goes by the cycle of a woman’s body; the Billing’s method which relies on a woman’s sense of whether she is feeling fertile or infertile using things like body temperature and the kinds of fluids they’re letting out of their bodies; and ecological breastfeeding.
Rhythm Method
The rhythm method of natural family planning is based around the idea that women have predictable menstrual cycles. By following the rhythm of: menstruation, infertility, fertility and infertility, women using this method hope to either avoid getting pregnant or increase the chances of it. Although the rhythm method is no longer recognised as being a ‘natural family planning’ method, it’s one that’s commonly lumped in anyway so many women use it. The main problem with it is that it does not take into account the fact that menstrual cycles are easily affected and so it’s not the most effective method. http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif
Billing’s Method
The Billing’s Method is the most commonly used one when it comes to natural family planning and the one that is usually recommended. It uses a few factors in a woman’s body to work: body temperature, the consistency of vaginal discharge, and sheer gut instinct on the part of the woman to determine whether she is fertile or infertile. Women who are in their ovulating period have a higher body temperature and fluids with the consistency of uncooked egg whites. Some women also get bloating, cramps, and tenderness. By avoiding sex during these periods, the chances of getting pregnant are much lower. When used properly, this method has an above 90% rate of effectiveness; not as high as birth control pills or condoms, but still very high. However, the method must be applied exactly, or it won’t work at all.
Ecological Breastfeeding
Ecological breastfeeding is based around the idea that when a woman is breastfeeding, she is largely infertile. This is because breastfeeding releases hormones that halt ovulation. By breastfeeding for 1-2 years, a woman can easily space out her pregnancies while giving her child the best start to life. Ecological breastfeeding is a highly effective form of birth control, but you have to breast feed often and with no supplementing; something that is very difficult for most women in this day and age.
Natural family planning is most heavily endorsed by the Roman Catholic Church, but it is also enjoyed by any woman who is mistrustful of the pill or condoms, or who would prefer to let the dice roll as they will. When used properly, methods are very effective, but it only takes one slip up for these methods to be rendered useless, so if you want to opt for natural family planning, make sure you know exactly what you’re doing first.
Natural Family Planning is based around the fact that the menstrual cycle of women has periods of infertility in it when it’s much harder or nearly impossible for women to get pregnant. It is at these times where it safe for women to have unprotected sex, or so the theory goes, and thus there is no need for things like birth control pills or even condoms. There are three kinds of natural family planning methods: the Rhythm method which goes by the cycle of a woman’s body; the Billing’s method which relies on a woman’s sense of whether she is feeling fertile or infertile using things like body temperature and the kinds of fluids they’re letting out of their bodies; and ecological breastfeeding.
Rhythm Method
The rhythm method of natural family planning is based around the idea that women have predictable menstrual cycles. By following the rhythm of: menstruation, infertility, fertility and infertility, women using this method hope to either avoid getting pregnant or increase the chances of it. Although the rhythm method is no longer recognised as being a ‘natural family planning’ method, it’s one that’s commonly lumped in anyway so many women use it. The main problem with it is that it does not take into account the fact that menstrual cycles are easily affected and so it’s not the most effective method. http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif
Billing’s Method
The Billing’s Method is the most commonly used one when it comes to natural family planning and the one that is usually recommended. It uses a few factors in a woman’s body to work: body temperature, the consistency of vaginal discharge, and sheer gut instinct on the part of the woman to determine whether she is fertile or infertile. Women who are in their ovulating period have a higher body temperature and fluids with the consistency of uncooked egg whites. Some women also get bloating, cramps, and tenderness. By avoiding sex during these periods, the chances of getting pregnant are much lower. When used properly, this method has an above 90% rate of effectiveness; not as high as birth control pills or condoms, but still very high. However, the method must be applied exactly, or it won’t work at all.
Ecological Breastfeeding
Ecological breastfeeding is based around the idea that when a woman is breastfeeding, she is largely infertile. This is because breastfeeding releases hormones that halt ovulation. By breastfeeding for 1-2 years, a woman can easily space out her pregnancies while giving her child the best start to life. Ecological breastfeeding is a highly effective form of birth control, but you have to breast feed often and with no supplementing; something that is very difficult for most women in this day and age.
Natural family planning is most heavily endorsed by the Roman Catholic Church, but it is also enjoyed by any woman who is mistrustful of the pill or condoms, or who would prefer to let the dice roll as they will. When used properly, methods are very effective, but it only takes one slip up for these methods to be rendered useless, so if you want to opt for natural family planning, make sure you know exactly what you’re doing first.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Saturday's Product: The Pill
The Pill is a safe sex tool that is universally known nowadays. Birth control pills work by releasing hormones in the body of the woman taking them to control periods and prevent eggs from being fertilised or even released. Although nowadays, most woman in the west take birth control as a matter of course, when the Pill was first conceived and introduced, it brought with it a wave of social revolution and a complexity of issues that are ongoing today.
The Pill uses the hormone progesterone to block the egg from dropping and from being able to be fertilised. Surprisingly, the pill started out as a way to help infertility, not create a falsely infertile woman. The theory was that if you don’t allow any eggs to drop for a while and then let it drop several months later, it would be more easily fertilised and thus infertile woman would be able to get pregnant. Although it’s likely that the women who got pregnant after dropping the pill after four months was a fluke, it did lead researchers, specifically Gregory Pincus who had conducted the research into improving infertility, to strengthening the pill as a contraceptive and begin a slow release into the public once it was deemed safe and effective.
What’s interesting about the Pill is the time it took to take the world by storm. Christianity for example was taken rather off guard by its introduction and implications; for a while the Pill was accepted because it didn’t damage a fetus or embryo, it just lengthened the period of safe sex time that happened in a woman’s natural cycle and since most church leaders encouraged Natural Family Planning (that is, having sex during a woman’s ‘safe’ period in order to prevent pregnancy), there wasn’t much any church could say against the pill for a while. In fact, it wasn’t until the woman’s movement began to snowball, thanks in no small part to the arrival and widespread use of The Pill that churches such as the Catholic Church began to take a more active and negative interest in the contraceptive. By that point though, it was hard to get women to stop taking it; many Catholic women were on the Pill to prevent unwanted pregnancies already, so most Catholic leaders adopted an ‘if we don’t know about it, we can’t get you for it’ policy. Leaders were still were very outspoken against contraceptives though, believing that they encouraged loose morals and promiscuity.
On a wider social scale though, the Pill had far more reaching consequences than the inventors could have imagined. Freed from the worry of childbearing, the age of marriage and child birth began to rise while more career women entered the workforce. Although most women would point out that this was through the efforts of campaign and protest, the Pill certainly had a role to play. Employers were more willing to hire a woman who wouldn’t be on maternity leave every two years and schools were more willing to open their doors to women who would complete a degree rather than getting pregnant and dropping out. Women were taking greater control of their sexuality; they were able to take the Pill without their husband’s knowledge or consent and thus this gave them a feeling of empowerment. And of course, it gave the rights to pregnancy more heavily to the woman; if she didn’t want to have a baby, she just had to pop a pill daily and the odds of getting pregnant dropped dramatically. And many mothers would slip their daughters the Pill once she reached the age of dating for fear of pregnancy.
The Pill had a massive impact on the woman’s movement and some historians believe that the woman’s movement would not have gone as far so quickly if it hadn’t been for birth control. After all, it allowed more women to join the workforce, get educated and control their sexuality in a way that they never could before. But to heap all of the woes of promiscuity and non-consequences of sex onto the Pill is erroneous. After all, couples have been searching for ways to prevent birth for as long as they realised how babies were made! The Pill’s main impact was that it allowed women to control their sexuality in a clean, discreet and highly effective way.
Nowadays, the Pill is something of a rite of passage for most women-as soon as a girl starts thinking about sex and getting into a serious relationship, she’s put on the pill or another form of birth control. However, there is still a lot of controversy and misunderstandings surrounding The Pill and there likely always will be. Still, it’s very important for most women to know that they are literally taking the right to have children into their own hands instead of leaving it up their partner.
The writer would like to thank Time Magazine’s Article: 50th Anniversary of The Pill for all of the wonderful research material and facts. That article was written by Nancy Gibbs. Any incorrect facts in this article are not her fault, but my own. Thank you!
The Pill uses the hormone progesterone to block the egg from dropping and from being able to be fertilised. Surprisingly, the pill started out as a way to help infertility, not create a falsely infertile woman. The theory was that if you don’t allow any eggs to drop for a while and then let it drop several months later, it would be more easily fertilised and thus infertile woman would be able to get pregnant. Although it’s likely that the women who got pregnant after dropping the pill after four months was a fluke, it did lead researchers, specifically Gregory Pincus who had conducted the research into improving infertility, to strengthening the pill as a contraceptive and begin a slow release into the public once it was deemed safe and effective.
What’s interesting about the Pill is the time it took to take the world by storm. Christianity for example was taken rather off guard by its introduction and implications; for a while the Pill was accepted because it didn’t damage a fetus or embryo, it just lengthened the period of safe sex time that happened in a woman’s natural cycle and since most church leaders encouraged Natural Family Planning (that is, having sex during a woman’s ‘safe’ period in order to prevent pregnancy), there wasn’t much any church could say against the pill for a while. In fact, it wasn’t until the woman’s movement began to snowball, thanks in no small part to the arrival and widespread use of The Pill that churches such as the Catholic Church began to take a more active and negative interest in the contraceptive. By that point though, it was hard to get women to stop taking it; many Catholic women were on the Pill to prevent unwanted pregnancies already, so most Catholic leaders adopted an ‘if we don’t know about it, we can’t get you for it’ policy. Leaders were still were very outspoken against contraceptives though, believing that they encouraged loose morals and promiscuity.
On a wider social scale though, the Pill had far more reaching consequences than the inventors could have imagined. Freed from the worry of childbearing, the age of marriage and child birth began to rise while more career women entered the workforce. Although most women would point out that this was through the efforts of campaign and protest, the Pill certainly had a role to play. Employers were more willing to hire a woman who wouldn’t be on maternity leave every two years and schools were more willing to open their doors to women who would complete a degree rather than getting pregnant and dropping out. Women were taking greater control of their sexuality; they were able to take the Pill without their husband’s knowledge or consent and thus this gave them a feeling of empowerment. And of course, it gave the rights to pregnancy more heavily to the woman; if she didn’t want to have a baby, she just had to pop a pill daily and the odds of getting pregnant dropped dramatically. And many mothers would slip their daughters the Pill once she reached the age of dating for fear of pregnancy.
The Pill had a massive impact on the woman’s movement and some historians believe that the woman’s movement would not have gone as far so quickly if it hadn’t been for birth control. After all, it allowed more women to join the workforce, get educated and control their sexuality in a way that they never could before. But to heap all of the woes of promiscuity and non-consequences of sex onto the Pill is erroneous. After all, couples have been searching for ways to prevent birth for as long as they realised how babies were made! The Pill’s main impact was that it allowed women to control their sexuality in a clean, discreet and highly effective way.
Nowadays, the Pill is something of a rite of passage for most women-as soon as a girl starts thinking about sex and getting into a serious relationship, she’s put on the pill or another form of birth control. However, there is still a lot of controversy and misunderstandings surrounding The Pill and there likely always will be. Still, it’s very important for most women to know that they are literally taking the right to have children into their own hands instead of leaving it up their partner.
The writer would like to thank Time Magazine’s Article: 50th Anniversary of The Pill for all of the wonderful research material and facts. That article was written by Nancy Gibbs. Any incorrect facts in this article are not her fault, but my own. Thank you!
Friday, May 7, 2010
History of the Condom
This last week before my vacation starts, we’re going to talk about Safe Sex. Dull? It doesn’t have to be! Today we’re going to look at the most common way to stop pregnancy and STDs; condoms! Specifically, we’re going to cover the history of the condom and believe me, by the end, you’ll be looking far more appreciatively at your little box in the bedside table!
Condoms have been in use for thousands of years, though they looked very different. Evidence of condom use in one form or another dates back the Egyptian times at about 1000 BC when Egyptians used condoms made of silk paper and linen. Cave paintings from France also dates back condom use to about 200 AD which was a visual aid to how condoms were used. However, it’s not until the 1500s that condoms began to enjoy publicised notoriety. An Italian doctor by the name of Fallopius began documenting the use of linen sheath condoms to protect people from syphilis. Uncomfortable to be sure, but the condom did largely do its job and syphilis numbers began to drop among condom users.
In the 1600s, farmers made condoms instead from sheep guts. This is likely the origin of sheepskin condoms. It would probably disgust users now, but they were a cheap route to contraception and were effective. The condom was brought to the attention of the Royal Family in England (King Charles II) and it’s believed that the name ‘condom’ has its origins here. A physician named Dr. Condom/Conton brought it into the public eye and folklore attributes the name to the doctor. More likely though, it comes from the Latin word ‘condus’ or container.
Condoms began to enjoy more widespread use and advertisement starting in the 18th century when leaflets advertising their usefulness began to circulate among the store owners. It was a great thing to sell and many people recognised its usefulness in both contraception and it preventing some diseases. In 1840, condoms made of rubber began to circulate the stores. These condoms were meant to be used over and over again; men were advised to use them until they crumbled before purchasing a new one. Disgusting, no? Not to mention far less safe!
Condoms also enjoyed notoriety in Japan. These condoms were made from horn and tortoise shell, which made them hard, but effective at stopping the flow of sperm.
It wasn’t until the 1930s that the latex condom began working their way around. The process of making latex condoms became more affordable and easier, though you still wouldn’t have seen the range of condoms you see now until the 1990s when a greater range of condoms were available to suit a growing openness about sexuality and wants.
So, the next time you sigh about reaching for that little cardboard box of condoms, be glad that you’re not wearing one made of horn or sheep guts! On a more serious note, the history of condoms proves that the quest to control sexuality and the results of it have been around for thousands of years.
Condoms have been in use for thousands of years, though they looked very different. Evidence of condom use in one form or another dates back the Egyptian times at about 1000 BC when Egyptians used condoms made of silk paper and linen. Cave paintings from France also dates back condom use to about 200 AD which was a visual aid to how condoms were used. However, it’s not until the 1500s that condoms began to enjoy publicised notoriety. An Italian doctor by the name of Fallopius began documenting the use of linen sheath condoms to protect people from syphilis. Uncomfortable to be sure, but the condom did largely do its job and syphilis numbers began to drop among condom users.
In the 1600s, farmers made condoms instead from sheep guts. This is likely the origin of sheepskin condoms. It would probably disgust users now, but they were a cheap route to contraception and were effective. The condom was brought to the attention of the Royal Family in England (King Charles II) and it’s believed that the name ‘condom’ has its origins here. A physician named Dr. Condom/Conton brought it into the public eye and folklore attributes the name to the doctor. More likely though, it comes from the Latin word ‘condus’ or container.
Condoms began to enjoy more widespread use and advertisement starting in the 18th century when leaflets advertising their usefulness began to circulate among the store owners. It was a great thing to sell and many people recognised its usefulness in both contraception and it preventing some diseases. In 1840, condoms made of rubber began to circulate the stores. These condoms were meant to be used over and over again; men were advised to use them until they crumbled before purchasing a new one. Disgusting, no? Not to mention far less safe!
Condoms also enjoyed notoriety in Japan. These condoms were made from horn and tortoise shell, which made them hard, but effective at stopping the flow of sperm.
It wasn’t until the 1930s that the latex condom began working their way around. The process of making latex condoms became more affordable and easier, though you still wouldn’t have seen the range of condoms you see now until the 1990s when a greater range of condoms were available to suit a growing openness about sexuality and wants.
So, the next time you sigh about reaching for that little cardboard box of condoms, be glad that you’re not wearing one made of horn or sheep guts! On a more serious note, the history of condoms proves that the quest to control sexuality and the results of it have been around for thousands of years.
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Adding Something Special to Romance: Massage Oils
It’s not always enough to just whip out the old penis and breasts and go at it! Sometimes you want to add something special to the romance. Adding something special will not only give you a new boost to your sex life, but also gives you a nice gift for Valentine’s Day or Easter or Anniversaries (or any holiday really!) One of the nicest gifts you can give even the most reserved partner is massage oils.
Massage oils are oils that can be used in all forms of massage, sensual or otherwise. They are designed to be smooth, silky, and easy to use. The best ones are all natural massage oils that add proteins and vitamins to your skin so that you’re getting medicinal therapy was well as a relaxing and romantic massage. Some massage oils even contain ingredients that serve as a gentle aphrodisiac and can really put your in the mood. Still others can double as lubrication, though make sure to read the label and check before trying it as some oils contain ingredients that are good for the shoulders and back, but not so good for more intimate areas. Massage oils can contain ingredients such as vanilla, ylang ylang, kukai oil, almond oil, and a variety of fragrances such as strawberry and champagne. Some massage oils are edible, so that you can give a massage with more than just your hands! while others can double as lubricants. Some oils are best used for things like tantra yoga or for enjoying foreplay; these ones are easy to wash off and out of cloth and even the most delicate fabrics are safe around these oils.
It’s very important when choosing your massage oils to pick ones that will be suitable for your needs. For example, if you want to do more than just give a massage, you’ll want ones that are edible or are safe on sensitive areas. If your partner or you have sensitive skin, then you should get oils with natural and gentle ingredients so that nothing is irritated after the massage. Finding the perfect oil is mostly a matter of doing a bit of research; you can find scads of different types online, so it’s most a matter of picking the one that suits your needs best.
Massage oils can be slipped into gift baskets, stockings, and as part of an anniversary gift. They are highly affordable and last a while. They promote relaxation and closeness that helps bring about a more sexual mood in both partners. And, if nothing else, they are highly appreciated after a hard day of work.
So, if you’re looking for a nice little gift idea for any occasion, then you should look at some massage oils, the more natural ingredients the better. It’s definitely worth a bit of time and money!
Massage oils are oils that can be used in all forms of massage, sensual or otherwise. They are designed to be smooth, silky, and easy to use. The best ones are all natural massage oils that add proteins and vitamins to your skin so that you’re getting medicinal therapy was well as a relaxing and romantic massage. Some massage oils even contain ingredients that serve as a gentle aphrodisiac and can really put your in the mood. Still others can double as lubrication, though make sure to read the label and check before trying it as some oils contain ingredients that are good for the shoulders and back, but not so good for more intimate areas. Massage oils can contain ingredients such as vanilla, ylang ylang, kukai oil, almond oil, and a variety of fragrances such as strawberry and champagne. Some massage oils are edible, so that you can give a massage with more than just your hands! while others can double as lubricants. Some oils are best used for things like tantra yoga or for enjoying foreplay; these ones are easy to wash off and out of cloth and even the most delicate fabrics are safe around these oils.
It’s very important when choosing your massage oils to pick ones that will be suitable for your needs. For example, if you want to do more than just give a massage, you’ll want ones that are edible or are safe on sensitive areas. If your partner or you have sensitive skin, then you should get oils with natural and gentle ingredients so that nothing is irritated after the massage. Finding the perfect oil is mostly a matter of doing a bit of research; you can find scads of different types online, so it’s most a matter of picking the one that suits your needs best.
Massage oils can be slipped into gift baskets, stockings, and as part of an anniversary gift. They are highly affordable and last a while. They promote relaxation and closeness that helps bring about a more sexual mood in both partners. And, if nothing else, they are highly appreciated after a hard day of work.
So, if you’re looking for a nice little gift idea for any occasion, then you should look at some massage oils, the more natural ingredients the better. It’s definitely worth a bit of time and money!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Forms of Herbal Sex Enhancements
There are several forms of herbal sex enhancements on the market, which makes it a very versatile way to deal with sexual dysfunction problems such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, as well as low libido in women. Each of the forms of herbal remedies have their own set of advantages, so it’s good to know all of the different types when shopping around for the ideal one for you.
Pill
Of course there are herbal remedies for sex enhancement in the form of pills. These are often dried, crushed herbs and liquids put into capsules and tablets. Pills are some of the common form of herbal remedies on the market and this makes them easy to get. The main drawbacks are that they often require a drink or something to eat in order to metabolise them and they often have to be taken well in advance so that the ingredients can go through the digestive tract and to the organs in question. Examples of pills include Hot Rod, Vicerex, and VigRX Plus pills.
Oils/Other Thin Liquids.
On the other end of the herbal sex enhancement spectrum, we see oils and other thinner fluids. Oils are topical treatments that are applied directly onto the penis or breasts in order to make them larger. Male herbal sex enhancemhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifents in oils are far more common than they are for women, simply because it’s easier to strengthen the penis with oils than it is to strengthen female body parts. Oils are usually faster than pills since they go straight through the skin and affect only the area it’s used on. They also tend to be made of purer materials since pills often have filler in them. However, oils and other thin liquids have to be researched carefully because some kinds have more toxic ingredients than other, so you really have to be sure that you’re getting the pure stuff. Examples of topical treatments include gambir sarawak and VigRX Plus oil. Germany Sex Drops is used as female sex enhancer.
Creams
Creams are often used in breast enhancement, but also for reducing vaginal dryness. Creams are useful because they are fairly easily absorbed in the skin and very easy to apply. They are mainly used for improving sensitivity and occasionally for temporary enlargements. The main problem with creams is that they are very temporary measures and they can cause sensitivities in some women. You should also check ingredient listings very carefully to make sure you’re not just getting a bunch of junk in your system. Examples include Hersolution Gel and Vigorelle.
Patches
Newest on the market are natural sex enhancement patches. These patches are usually used by men to end problems with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Patches are convenient because they are worn under clothing and don’t have to be replaced for about three days. The main disadvantage is that they are slow acting; it can take several weeks for you to get the full effects, but once you do, they are usually nearly permanent. An example of a male sex enhancement patch is ProEnhance Patch.
There are a lot of options to choose from when deciding how you want to handle any sexual problem in an all natural fashion. Just make sure to choose the one that is best suited to your time and your preference and you’ll be ready to go!
Pill
Of course there are herbal remedies for sex enhancement in the form of pills. These are often dried, crushed herbs and liquids put into capsules and tablets. Pills are some of the common form of herbal remedies on the market and this makes them easy to get. The main drawbacks are that they often require a drink or something to eat in order to metabolise them and they often have to be taken well in advance so that the ingredients can go through the digestive tract and to the organs in question. Examples of pills include Hot Rod, Vicerex, and VigRX Plus pills.
Oils/Other Thin Liquids.
On the other end of the herbal sex enhancement spectrum, we see oils and other thinner fluids. Oils are topical treatments that are applied directly onto the penis or breasts in order to make them larger. Male herbal sex enhancemhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifents in oils are far more common than they are for women, simply because it’s easier to strengthen the penis with oils than it is to strengthen female body parts. Oils are usually faster than pills since they go straight through the skin and affect only the area it’s used on. They also tend to be made of purer materials since pills often have filler in them. However, oils and other thin liquids have to be researched carefully because some kinds have more toxic ingredients than other, so you really have to be sure that you’re getting the pure stuff. Examples of topical treatments include gambir sarawak and VigRX Plus oil. Germany Sex Drops is used as female sex enhancer.
Creams
Creams are often used in breast enhancement, but also for reducing vaginal dryness. Creams are useful because they are fairly easily absorbed in the skin and very easy to apply. They are mainly used for improving sensitivity and occasionally for temporary enlargements. The main problem with creams is that they are very temporary measures and they can cause sensitivities in some women. You should also check ingredient listings very carefully to make sure you’re not just getting a bunch of junk in your system. Examples include Hersolution Gel and Vigorelle.
Patches
Newest on the market are natural sex enhancement patches. These patches are usually used by men to end problems with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Patches are convenient because they are worn under clothing and don’t have to be replaced for about three days. The main disadvantage is that they are slow acting; it can take several weeks for you to get the full effects, but once you do, they are usually nearly permanent. An example of a male sex enhancement patch is ProEnhance Patch.
There are a lot of options to choose from when deciding how you want to handle any sexual problem in an all natural fashion. Just make sure to choose the one that is best suited to your time and your preference and you’ll be ready to go!
Sunday, May 2, 2010
The Exercise of Power
For many men and women, having dominance and power over another makes them feel horny. Ergo, the bondage play; the feeling of having the power to make someone sit down, shut up, and take it, is for many people a real turn on. Even in non-sex play, such as by being a supervisor or a boss, the 'feel good' feeling remains.
I've learned something about myself.
I'm not one of those people.
Today I had to ban an Earthy Sex forum user. I didn't want to, but after three warnings, including a general forum posting, the person just wasn't getting it. Maybe some people would have considered the infraction minor, and it sort of was, but it was causing a big headache to me and, more importantly, there was a decided feeling coming across that this user was either a 'bot or just didn't care to look at or even try to understand the rules.
So here goes.
This person posted about 200 free porn videos in the Straight section of the forums and scattered several more in all the other forums; except for video sharing which to me, and likely to most poeple, would have been the obvious choice for posting free porn. I mean, duh. I sent out a very polite message to this person in clear English (because all the posts were done in Russian I think) stating that their videos had been moved (I moved all of the videos for this person) to the correct forum and to use that forum from now on for posting videos. Then I did a post in the Straight forum about videos. After all, we want videos on the forums (they're bringing in the viewers!) but in the right place!
He/she/it continued posting videos in the Straight Forum.
I sent a more stern and to the point warning. I even tried to do it in Russian, but the translation kept getting screwed up so I just wrote it very simply.
Woke up this morning to more videos.
Sent infraction points and the reason for it.
Two more videos followed.
Banned user for one month, but he/she/it is still getting the backlink power since I left the videos in the correct forum.
I don't feel powerful or sexy or strong or anything. I just feel kind of ill and tired. Which makes me wonder what kind of sexual being I am and furthermore whether I was just being a bitch about it or whether I have a legitimate grievance?
I've learned something about myself.
I'm not one of those people.
Today I had to ban an Earthy Sex forum user. I didn't want to, but after three warnings, including a general forum posting, the person just wasn't getting it. Maybe some people would have considered the infraction minor, and it sort of was, but it was causing a big headache to me and, more importantly, there was a decided feeling coming across that this user was either a 'bot or just didn't care to look at or even try to understand the rules.
So here goes.
This person posted about 200 free porn videos in the Straight section of the forums and scattered several more in all the other forums; except for video sharing which to me, and likely to most poeple, would have been the obvious choice for posting free porn. I mean, duh. I sent out a very polite message to this person in clear English (because all the posts were done in Russian I think) stating that their videos had been moved (I moved all of the videos for this person) to the correct forum and to use that forum from now on for posting videos. Then I did a post in the Straight forum about videos. After all, we want videos on the forums (they're bringing in the viewers!) but in the right place!
He/she/it continued posting videos in the Straight Forum.
I sent a more stern and to the point warning. I even tried to do it in Russian, but the translation kept getting screwed up so I just wrote it very simply.
Woke up this morning to more videos.
Sent infraction points and the reason for it.
Two more videos followed.
Banned user for one month, but he/she/it is still getting the backlink power since I left the videos in the correct forum.
I don't feel powerful or sexy or strong or anything. I just feel kind of ill and tired. Which makes me wonder what kind of sexual being I am and furthermore whether I was just being a bitch about it or whether I have a legitimate grievance?
Saturday, May 1, 2010
ProEnhance Patch
Saturday’s Product is….. ProEnhance Patch! ProEnhance Patch is a new product for male sexual enhancement that is discreet, long lasting, and easy to use. So what the heck is it and does it work?
ProEnhance Patch is an herbal sex male enhancement product that uses fresh herbal ingredients like Damiana, Fo-Ti, and Gensing. These ingredients are packed fresh into the patch and are certified as being robust and always fresh. These ingredients promote energy, bloodflow and improve sensitivity. Unlike many other herbal sex enhancement products, all of the ingredients in this product are safe to use and don’t cause odd health side effects.
This form of male sex enhancement is very different to use from the typical product as well. Instead of popping pills or using weird stretching devices, you simply place the patch on your lower abdomen and wear it under your clothes. Much like any patch, the ingredients in the patch then seep into the skin and go to work ramping up your sex drive and helping with any sexual dysfunction issues you have. The end result is a harder, larger penis, more stamina, and greater sensitivity.
ProEnhance Patch is best used with the whole system that the company offers, which includes exercises to do while taking the patch to ramp up the success of the product. This system is one of the most complete systems though and most successful.
So how does ProEnhance Patch stack up compared to other products?
All Natural Ingredients: Yes! The ingredients include fresh herbal ingredients that don’t include ones like Yohimbe that can have odd side effects. Instead, the hers are safe to use.
Encourage Your Partner to Help: No. Well, unless you want her to put it on for you, but that’s really very sensual.
Energy Boosting: Yes! Many of the herbs in the patch strengthen your stamina and help you to last longer.
Easy to Use: Yes! Incredibly easy to use in fact. Just place the patch on a bit of bare skin and go about your regular healthy routine (exercising, eating right and carrying on like normal). It can even be worn while you’re showering and it’s fairly tough. However, you do have to replace it every three days, but a box of patches lasts about four to sex months. This is far more preferable to popping pills by many men.
Side Effects?: None really. It won’t even counteract any other drugs you’re taking and even senior citizens are safe to take it. However, always check with your doctor first.
Reviews: Positive. As long as you stick with the system for a few weeks, you’ll see very nice results.
Fast Acting: Not so much… It can take up to six weeks to see the best results, but since you don’t really have to do much beyond wear the patch and do a bit of exercising, it’s usually not too onerous for people.
Price: It depends on which set you get; you can get packages with just the patches and access to the site’s member’s area, or you can get deluxe packages with a year’s supply of patches and other freebies. The price ranges from $68.95 for a month’s supply and access to the member’s area to $358.95 for a year’s supply of the patch, plus pills and access to all sorts of online support. It may seem expensive, but think on how much you’ve already wasted on other systems.
So is it worth it? Yes, but you should try and get multiple month supplies rather than go month by month because you end up saving a lot of money that way. If you’re uncertain though, try a one month supply with a promotion (you can find promotions online just by searching ProEnhance Patch) and then seeing how it goes. However, going for the three month buy will let you see the full extent of the benefits you can get and after that, you’ll want to go for the yearly.
ProEnhance Patch is an herbal sex male enhancement product that uses fresh herbal ingredients like Damiana, Fo-Ti, and Gensing. These ingredients are packed fresh into the patch and are certified as being robust and always fresh. These ingredients promote energy, bloodflow and improve sensitivity. Unlike many other herbal sex enhancement products, all of the ingredients in this product are safe to use and don’t cause odd health side effects.
This form of male sex enhancement is very different to use from the typical product as well. Instead of popping pills or using weird stretching devices, you simply place the patch on your lower abdomen and wear it under your clothes. Much like any patch, the ingredients in the patch then seep into the skin and go to work ramping up your sex drive and helping with any sexual dysfunction issues you have. The end result is a harder, larger penis, more stamina, and greater sensitivity.
ProEnhance Patch is best used with the whole system that the company offers, which includes exercises to do while taking the patch to ramp up the success of the product. This system is one of the most complete systems though and most successful.
So how does ProEnhance Patch stack up compared to other products?
All Natural Ingredients: Yes! The ingredients include fresh herbal ingredients that don’t include ones like Yohimbe that can have odd side effects. Instead, the hers are safe to use.
Encourage Your Partner to Help: No. Well, unless you want her to put it on for you, but that’s really very sensual.
Energy Boosting: Yes! Many of the herbs in the patch strengthen your stamina and help you to last longer.
Easy to Use: Yes! Incredibly easy to use in fact. Just place the patch on a bit of bare skin and go about your regular healthy routine (exercising, eating right and carrying on like normal). It can even be worn while you’re showering and it’s fairly tough. However, you do have to replace it every three days, but a box of patches lasts about four to sex months. This is far more preferable to popping pills by many men.
Side Effects?: None really. It won’t even counteract any other drugs you’re taking and even senior citizens are safe to take it. However, always check with your doctor first.
Reviews: Positive. As long as you stick with the system for a few weeks, you’ll see very nice results.
Fast Acting: Not so much… It can take up to six weeks to see the best results, but since you don’t really have to do much beyond wear the patch and do a bit of exercising, it’s usually not too onerous for people.
Price: It depends on which set you get; you can get packages with just the patches and access to the site’s member’s area, or you can get deluxe packages with a year’s supply of patches and other freebies. The price ranges from $68.95 for a month’s supply and access to the member’s area to $358.95 for a year’s supply of the patch, plus pills and access to all sorts of online support. It may seem expensive, but think on how much you’ve already wasted on other systems.
So is it worth it? Yes, but you should try and get multiple month supplies rather than go month by month because you end up saving a lot of money that way. If you’re uncertain though, try a one month supply with a promotion (you can find promotions online just by searching ProEnhance Patch) and then seeing how it goes. However, going for the three month buy will let you see the full extent of the benefits you can get and after that, you’ll want to go for the yearly.
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