Sex Toys to Spice Up Your Relationship If You're New

Sex toysare some of the easiest and fun ways to spice up your romantic life, but if you’re new to toys, you are likely, and understandably! a little nervous about the whole thing. If you’ve never used a sex toy before and you’re nervous, then there are some toys to consider for your maiden voyage. Then, as you get more comfortable with them, you can expand your repertoire.

Lotions and Oils
While not a sex toy in and of themselves, a good lotion or oil is essential, especially the first few times when it’s likely you’re not comfortable enough to produce your own lubrication. There are some truly excellent lotions and oils online and offline. The best ones out there are either water based (because they don’t stain or wear toys out too quickly) or silicon based for silicon toys. Petroleum based oils are not recommended because they eat through things like condoms and destroy toys. They can even cause rashes! Use lotions and oils not only as lubrication, but also for massages as a nice warm up.

Vibrators
Vibrators work by insertion into the vagina and by stimulating the g-spot and other sensitive areas with vibrations that can be any speed from slow to fast (most are adjustable). They are completely safe to use and are very easy to get used to. If you are used to using things like tampons, then a vibrator should be no problem. Use it to warm up before sex, or to pleasure yourself best. If you don’t want to use one via vaginal insertion, then they can also be used around the nipples, breasts; really, anywhere that is sensitive!

Dildo
A dildo is a sex toy meant to emulate a penis. It’s traditionally used by women to simulate vaginal penetration. Unlike vibrators which come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, a dildo is made of harder materials and is meant solely for penetration. Easy to use and very easy to find, there’s no reason not to get one if you’re interested in giving sex toys a spin.

Anal Plug
An anal plug is used by both men and women to heighten orgasms. It’s placed in the anus and has a flared end to prevent it from falling too deep. Anal plugs are very easy to use, but you need to use a lot of lubrication in order to make them comfortable. They are also a good introduction to other forms of anal sex and anal toys because they are so easy to use and not as uncomfortable as other toys are when you’re just starting out.

Still nervous? Then peruse any of our wonderful affiliates at Earthy Sex and give a toy a try. You won’t know until you try!